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Survey: What Percentage of Parents Embrace an Authoritarian Parenting Style in 2024?
By Debbie Lopez Updated on April 25, 2025
Rick Lopez, M.Ed. Rick Lopez, M.Ed.

Survey: What Percentage of Parents Embrace an Authoritarian Parenting Style in 2024?

We surveyed 3,000 parents across the U.S. to find out how many are adopting a more hands-on, authoritarian approach to parenting. While results vary by state, most parents are leaning towards stricter involvement in their children's education.

Key Findings:

  • Nearly half (49%) of U.S. parents are now adopting a more authoritarian parenting style, feeling the need to take greater control over their children’s academic pursuits.

  • Regional differences are evident. States like Oklahoma (64%), Virginia (63%), and Arkansas (61%) show higher rates of strict parenting, while North Dakota (25%), Colorado (34%), and Iowa (28%) lean towards more permissive approaches.

  • 40% of parents recognize that technological advancements influence their children’s education and career decisions. Additionally, 16% prioritize job security over their children’s personal interests.

  • There’s a noticeable shift towards structured skill-building activities, with less emphasis on free play. Many parents now use performance-based rewards or punishments, such as adjusting allowances based on grades or assisting with school projects to ensure higher marks.

  • 19% of parents equate their child’s failure to attend college with personal defeat, emphasizing the high stakes placed on educational attainment.

Implications of the Study:

A trend towards interventionist parenting

  • More parents are choosing structured activities and disciplinary measures to guide their children towards academic success. This shift reflects a broader trend of increased parental involvement, influenced in part by the rapid growth of technology and AI in education.
  • Parents clearly recognize the impact and importance of technological and AI developments, which plays a big part in their parenting choices, and is partly responsible for the shift towards more authoritative parenting.

Significant geographical variations

  • The geographical variations in parenting styles, such as the marked increase in stricter approaches in certain states suggests that localized factors influence parental attitudes and behaviors.

Emphasis on career success

  • The trend towards stricter parenting reflects a societal focus on structured education and career achievements, often placing these above children’s personal interests. For many parents, academic success is closely tied to future personal success.
  • The prevalence of stricter parenting styles, as indicated by the increased control over children’s academic lives, suggests a societal shift towards prioritizing structured education and career success over individual passions.
  • As we can see, personal success is highly associated with educational attainment, which shows how significant academic achievement is in the eyes of more authoritative parents in the current socio-economic climate.

Methodology

Online panel survey of 3,000 adults based on age, gender, and geography. Internal data sources are used to obtain population data sets. We used a two-step process to ensure representativeness through stratified sampling and post-stratification weighting.

Respondents are carefully chosen from a geographically representative online panel of double opt-in members. This selection is further tailored to meet the precise criteria required for each unique survey. Throughout the survey, we design questions to carefully screen and authenticate respondents, guaranteeing the alignment of the survey with the ideal participants.

To ensure the integrity of our data collection, we employ an array of data quality methods. Alongside conventional measures like digital fingerprinting, bot checks, geo-verification, and speeding detection, etc., each response undergoes a thorough review by a dedicated team member to ensure quality and contextual accuracy. Our commitment extends to open-ended responses, subjecting them to scrutiny for gibberish answers and plagiarism detection.